South Africa, Forbidden Fruit and Passing
I have just added the label Passing to this site and on Native Influence.
I don't typically watch porn. From what little I know of porn, it likes to use "forbidden fruit" as a means to get a rise out of people, like Barely Legal and Interracial.
I've had intimate relationships with men of color and I shut them down if they start talking about "You're White skin against my dark skin is HOT!" because that's racist and that's not why I'm involved with them.
To me, that's in the same category as perverts who want me to tell them all about being raped with a gleam in their eye and their hand down their pants. I don't want none, thanks.
Most people seem to not really bond emotionally anymore and not have intimate relationships and not marry for life. So some big feels bullshit is how they get off and some kind of "forbidden fruit" is one way they do that.
Which helps keep crap like racism alive and I don't want none of that neither.
It also means anywhere you have serious racism, you have people having interracial affairs BECAUSE it's forbidden and that does something for them. It's a RUSH to do the nasty knowing it's illegal or your mom would be outraged, etc.
A comedian named Trevor Noah jokes that "South Africa isn't where you go to get away from racism. It's where you go to stock up." He's got a White father and Black mother and was born like six years before Apartheid ended.
His parents couldn't live together or marry and he couldn't be seen in public with either one. His mother dressed up like a servant so she could go places with him without anyone commenting, like she was his nanny.
So I'm guessing that there's two things true about South Africa that no one is saying:
1. Getting brown sugar so to speak is probably a shockingly common dirty little secret that White Supremacist assholes think is good clean fun not hurting no one.
2. Just like the US, their "White" population is probably not as lily white as they paint it as and for similar reasons: Being accepted as White makes a big difference in your quality of life and there's really NOT a clear bright line between ethnicities that they want to pretend there is.
FYI: If some White chick in South Africa has a mixed baby and wants to pretend she was assaulted: Probably NOT.
For him, that's a potential sentence of death. The way to bet is he was politely raped by a woman with power over him implicitly or explicitly threatening him if he didn't do what she wanted.
By "politely" I mean she probably used implicit threats rather than physical violence to force herself on him against his will. Same way I use it in The Suckitude.