There's Your Problem
I've just written a piece about The Silence of the Lambs and it talks about how Hannibal Lecter is the only man in the movie who isn't a predator of women and that I think this is the real reason the movie terrified so many people.
I think most men really do routinely treat women like nothing but a piece of ass and steal ideas from them and expect women to pick up after them etc. while closing doors on them career wise and gatekeeping them out of the big money.
So most women need to become hookers or wives to have any hope of supporting themselves. So men have most of the money and women need to put out to survive.
While men whine and cry about women not really wanting them and constantly having a headache and only being after their money.
If you want a better sex life, maybe you could LET women adequately support themselves so that if some chick rolls you, it's because she thinks you're hot and not because her fridge is empty and the rent is overdue.